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Bad Boy Versus Nice Man - Does Love Have Something To Do With Being A Bad Boy Versus A Nice Guy?
Fine, we have all watched that myth - that "nice guys" do not make it and the 'bad boys" appeal to women - but I don't think it is always true.
At least I don't think it has anything to do with being a bad boy compared to a nice guy.
I think there are other personality factors involved that maybe bad boys and nice guys have that are the identifying qualities of attraction.
Bad boys usually are less shy, but in addition they are more confident in general than nice guys. I feel that it would be these qualities that are attracting a woman not the aspect that a guy is bad.
I personally do not use the "bad boy" approach when attracting women, I am most always a perfect gentleman. Nevertheless, I am not an easy guy to hook and women can tell that quickly when talking to me. I am a little reserved, I don't compliment women when I first meet them or tell them how attractive they are, and most women don't have a hint as to whether I am interested in them or just being good.
That is what sets me away from a "nice guy". Women see me as a rightful gentleman but haven't a clue if I love them or not. Women -especially very attractive women - enjoy that. They are sick and tired of talking to men who fawn all over them.
Girls like guys who are alluring and unique. Attractive girls don't find gents who tell them how beautiful they are to be unique. But a guy who has an enjoyable conversation with them without saying a word about their good looks verbally or non-verbally - now that is both appealing and unique to a beautiful girl.
Also do not forget that women have different qualities. And what one thinks is interesting and unique changes from personality to personality. A not-so-good-looking lady may find it totally interesting and unique to be told how attractive she is by a man. A woman who grows up in a society of perfect gentlemen, might very well see a guy who talks a little awful and naughty to be interesting and different. A woman who knows nothing but arrogant and ignorant men, would find a gentlemen to be an unusual interesting and unique find.
You see irrespective of what you are like there is someone for you. But you have to identify who that someone would be and then try to build up a scenario on how you would meet people like that. So regardless of if you are a bad guy or a nice guy, put yourself in a situation where you are interesting and different to the women you come across and you will be victorious.
One of the hardest things to learn in life is that irrespective of what you are like there is definitely someone who is perfectly compatible with you. Even if you are dull there are women who are absolutely compatible with that. Not every one desires to meet and hook up with the life of the gathering.
The problem is people who don't acknowledge themselves for who they are, attempt to act differently and they are not being real, so they don't entice anyone. Now if you just admit yourself for who you are and act the way you really are, you will realize that there are people who will choose you for who you are. So don't worry about whether you are dull or not, just be yourself. Sooner or later you will get a girl who will accept you for who you are.
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